There were not many times when Table Topics would evoke love and smiles. But Table Topics master Joyce did a lovely job at the meeting on 11 February 2017. She got every one of us draw a chocolate from a jar and those who drew one with a number hidden inside will get to…speak on Table Topics.
With the theme of Be My Valentine, there are no prizes for guessing what the Table Topics were about – LOVE, of course. Unconditional love, justified love, endless love, love has got to do with it, love takes time…
As fate would have it – that’s the subject Chen Kuang talked about coincidently (known as Amor Fati – love of fate), Edwin drew a chocolate with a number and it’s not just any number. It was significant that the number was “1” – it aptly signified his maiden attempt at Table Topics and him emerging the best/number one Table Topics speaker. Hopefully, it won’t be his one and only Table Topic speech ever.
This episode led me to think that Edwin is one who wants to keep a low profile about his strengths, and of course, he doesn’t want to put in too much effort either. That’s why he has never done a project evaluation as it is somewhat an impromptu speech as well.
Edwin talked about four lovers one would likely to have, namely first love, the one he/she loves more than the person loves him/her, the person loves him/her more, and the person one is married to. He sounded like a love guru.
I don’t know which is better – you love the person more than he/she loves you or the other way round. Never been in a romantic relationship, not qualified to give my two-cents’ worth. But I think love should be unconditional. If I love a person, I would hope the best for him, even if my love is unrequited.
Jean’s Table Topic was “the Greatest Love of All”, and she said that would be her family. But she didn’t limit her family to only her family members but extended that to us as well. I was touched. She once told me that she had probably put in too much feelings into the club.
Pradeep commended Taichi on the ice-breaker as it had helped attendees to warm up. Indeed, ice-breaker is useful in livening up the atmosphere and helped members to ease into the meeting on a Saturday afternoon. Taichi asked us five questions and we would write the most-likely popular answer on a piece of paper. Each of us would then reveal our answer and participants whose answer was the most popular would score a point for that answer. Jamie and Edwin scored the highest points, and they were rewarded with a chocolate by Taichi.
Taichi shared that Japan chocolatiers make half of their annual revenue on Valentine’s Day. Wow! That’s amazing. And the ladies would present a gift to the men they like on Valentine’s Day, and be reciprocated a month later if the love is requited.
Shanmugam talked about himself, including the joy when he first saw his two-month old baby boy after he returned from his work overseas to his hometown in India. He was beaming with joy when he spoke and I could feel his fatherly love for his boy.
It’s been quite some time since Chen Kuang attended meeting. He did his project three and he waxed lyrical about love of fate or Amor Fati in Latin. He clinched the best speaker title for it. Well done!
Lu Bin’s speech “Bet or Not” was timely, given that there was a lottery just the day before, and four winning tickets split the prize winnings of a whopping $12m. Bet or not bet, that’s the question. Lu Bin had made a correct observation that many punters are elderly. Indeed, I have seen not an insignificant number of grey-haired in the snaking queue at a betting centre. One of them was holding a $50 note. Joyce who evaluated Lu Bin’s speech cleverly married his topic with the theme of the meeting – love’s a gamble.
Happy Valentine’s Day!