28 February 2016
Garry in opening address reminded us why we joined the Toastmasters’ club. He said the club has about 120 members but there would only be about 20 attendees every session.
It was a timely reminder – at least to me – because the thought of quitting fleeted across my mind when I was preparing my present project. I found this time- consuming. It took me roughly two weeks to draft and practise a speech. I am impressed by Taichi who has consistently been delivering a prepared speech every month and his projects were not short of research for the subject.
Newcomer Sheila did her maiden speech and kudos to her, her performance was good and she was calm. Her speech titled “Searching for my place in the sun” has a lesson for me as well. Bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, I was once. Currently I am lost and stuck in a rut, in dire need to find “my place in the sun”.
Taichi reflected on his relationship with his parents and how it improved after he learned to appreciate kinship while living in India for four years. As usual, this speaker was methodical/scientific, he estimated he would have a total of only 25 days in the next decade with his elderly father. I reckon that he will probably go back to Japan soon to spend more time with his parents. We’ll miss this Toastmaster.
Angela was table topics master and the topics that surfaced in this session included your most memorable experience, something about you that surprises others and your dream job.
These reminded me of oral exam questions and among the topics, “dream job” was the one that I think I could tickle a funny bone or two. I would say playing Santa Claus would be my dream job. It’s simple and it works only one day in a year and it is a popular personality.
I was glad Angela “picked” me – she was looking at me when inviting speakers for the table topics. I wanted to buck up after reflecting on my performance at the Toastmasters in recent months and had felt that I had not been speaking enough. I talked about my flat feet as something that would surprise others. Perhaps it wasn’t surprising as none of the fellow Toastmasters looked amazed. I did not come up with a structure before I spoke. There should be an opening, body and closing. I need improvement in impromptu speaking and lots of practice to achieve thinking and speaking on the feet.
Besides speeches that caused one to do some introspection, a speech by visiting Toastmaster from Buona Vista, was greatly entertaining and his delivery was almost perfect. Joyce was as entertaining as Tushar in her evaluation of his speech and she was clever in the play of words, eg both dead fish and dead-end job stink but he’s the largest catch in the tank. Excellent!